This past week in the class we had the opportunity to talk about the some of the struggles and trials that many couples first have when married. When first engaged this whole new world is opened up to you and you start to plan for one of the most important days in your entire life. This can become an overwhelming when trying to plan for this wedding that you potentially want to have very soon in the future. Thus begins this new journey that you and your fiancé get to take together, wait but for some this isn't the case. When planning for this wonderful event it should be planned with the help of friends and family but not entirely with them. It is very important to get the help from family and friends but most don't really include this new soon to be husband help in any of the planning. In class we talked about how this is a lost opportunity for the man if he is not able to be apart of this new planning process. It has been found in studies that if you let the man help with this planning process then you will be able to drive better in the future.
Another topic that we discussed in class is how many could do nothing but the planning for the wedding and don't plan for the actual marriage. Like I said above we need to include the husband but when it becomes too much and we don't art to plan about the little things like, where the couple is going to live after they are married, how many children they want to have some day, and other things then this could potentially jeopardize the couple. When planning for a marriage we need to be able to find a good balance between the two and if we can't that is when the problems start to arise.
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