Fathers

This past week in my family relations class we talked about the role that the father plays in the family as well as i any relationship that involves children. Father have more of an impact then we realize, our fathers may have been at work five days a week and you only get to see them on the weekends but they still played a significant role in the family to the point that if the child's relationship with the father the whole family could potentially break under pressure. Fathers have been known as the main providers in the family and will continue to play that role in the future. Kids are very much dependent upon many of the actions that the father performs in the family at any given moment.

Furthermore the father is the one that is very dominant in the family and many children want to have a very strong and trustworthy relationship with the father of the house. Don't get me wrong the role of the mother is just as important but both the father and the mother have different roles and therefor it gives them each a place in the home.

Communication & Mutual Problem Solving

This past week in class we had the opportunity to go and tale about the different types of communication that this used in the home and how to effectively use these forms of communication. One of the forms of communication that we talked about is coming together and to have a family council. This form of communication has been proven to be very effective in the home and in order to truly make it effective you have to regularly have family councils with everyone. If you don't follow this trend then you are in jeopardy of not being able to communicate fully and effectively with everyone one in the home.

Another form of communication that we talked about in class is the importance of a husband and a wife to come together and council. This is yet another very effective way for couples to come together and talk about the issues and problems that each of them may have with one another. And this also allows them to talk about private matters with no one around to observe the issues you two may have and not want anyone to know but the two of you together. In conclusion there are manny different ways in which a couple can come together and talk about certain matters concerning the family and it being effective at this time.

The Family Under Stress

This past week in class we got the opportunity to talk about some of the different types of stressors that the family faces throughout different stages in the family development. As a class we talked about a very extreme situation where the family was placed under a lot of stress when a member of the family was admitted to the hospital, when this event tok place it was extremely hard on the family members. As time went on it put an intense amount of stress upon the family at this time. This then caused the family to falter under pressure, once this happened is caused some relationships to break within the family.  Soon the child that was admitted to the hospital passed away and caused a deep sorrow to spread in the family.

Once this event then settled in the family there was some healing that needed to be done within the walls of the home. Over time they soon came together but a tragedy very similar to the first event had appeared within the family. Now since they fell apart the fist time around they knew that they needed to handle this situation very differently so that they wouldn't fall apart the second time around. Since they had this mentality they were able to come together. Not every family will react the same way to every situation but we can come together if we put the effort in so that we can then come closer together.

Sexual Intimacy and Family Life

Once again this week in class we touched on a very sensitive subject, Sexual Intimacy and Family Life. When discussing this topic in class we came across how difficult it is to talk about this such subject, so many questions that wanted to be answered but many not being able to voice their opinions and thoughts due to the fact that they were scared about what others might think. Soon we were able to break it down to the basics of intimacy and we then went from there. We talked about the author by the name of Laura Brotherson, she is the author of the very popular book by the name of And They Were Not Ashamed: Strengthening Marriage through Sexual Fulfillment and Knowing HER Intimately: 12 Keys for Creating a Sextraordinary Marriage. In detail she talks about all the in's and out's of marriage and intimacy. 

Later on in the week we also got the opportunity to ask any question we wanted on the matter of marital intimacy. It was all anonymous, before we got to class we were asked to write our question on a note card and hand it to our professor before class starts and then we were able to go through all of the questions one by one and discuss all things relating to marriage and intimacy. Overall the week was very informative and I feel that I learned a lot this past week that  I had never known on this subject before.